Suicides increasing at an alarming rate kept me pondering over some stuffs so felt a strong urge to penned some thoughts.Have lost a friend who took impulsive decision and gave up one's most precious Gift by God-LIFE............I simply don't understand why recently IIM-Bangalore,super intelligent and independent girl took such a harsh step and gave up just because a GUY broke up with her over Social Media?Then starts the blamegame,is Social Media the real culprit?But the point is when one undergoes deepression and thinks of taking extreme decision can't they think cooly few seconds about people who unconditionally Loves them i.e Family,Parents and some genuine friends.Is the GUY who has just come to your life is so important that a coward act of his pushes to to the cliff and you jump and give up on Beautiful Life?
Depression is an curable illness,it just takes time.Though many at times a depression patient is closer to death.......I myself went through a tough phase in 2009 but which made me realize "Tough Times don't last,tough People Do"......Thank You is just a word of Gratitude i can express to my wellwishers who helped me out from a difficult phase and it was my Mom,pillar of strength who told me not to give up and i realized if something happens to me,its my parents who gonna get badly hurt and affected.And i resolved that no matter what i will never give up on Life and i am born a Fighter,nothing came easy to me,always struggle and staying away from family and beloved ones is synonmous with me and now its getting so monotonous :-)
When my Dear Friend,Miki told me about a beatiful girl who took her life over relationship issue,i was speechless and damn upset.I felt blessed to be single and that i am not with a wrong person rather wait for the right guy however long time frame it may be,wait is total worth.Successful models and foremer beauty queens like Nafisa Joseph,Kuljeet Randhawa,Viveka Babajee were severely depressed,unable to cope Life pressures,failed relationships and chose the path of suicide.Dating a wrong person is quite possible and moving on may not be easy for some but that doesnot mean one fails to see worth in oneself and falls prey to Depression.Is it worth to give up on Life for men who never valued you and played with your emotions?Is scoring 100% was such an obession and securing the most coveted seat in elite institition over on'e's life that so many teenagers are commiting suicide.
“INDIA HAS become the suicide capital of the world,” Farmers and students are most at risk. According to the latest statistics of India’s National Crime Records Bureau, 127,151 people in India committed suicide in 2009. This indicates an increase of 1.7 per cent over the previous year’s figures. Suicide is a great social leveller in India, Asia’s third largest and one the world’s fastest growing economies with a projected GDP growth of 8.6 per cent from 2010–11.
Jaago People,rise up,Life taken too seriously is not worth living.Life is about small joys like taking out time to have dinner with your beloved,going for long drives,enjoying street food with group of friends,watching a nice movie,also chasing one's dreams and ambition but not always about coming 1st in classs and at cost of one's Life.Most ridiculous to give up for someone who never realized your true worth and unconditional Love.
The movie-Jhootha Hi Sahi last year starting-John Abraham dealt with suicidal tendencies and how talking to someone can work wonders.I wish i had known that my dear friend was going through severe pain,i could have saved a life,till date i can never forget that news and in future i would be forever ready to be there for those who need me if really depressed.Guys break up is not worth to end your life,one should give time and move on,i understand easier said then done but its ain't impossible,trust me,wounds do get healed with time as they say "Time is the best healer" :-) ................."Live and Let Live" Enjoy every moment like as if its the last as with uncertainties like terrorism and blasts we don't know what Life and Destiny has in store but till our last breathe we can make a worthwhile living and not think of extreme act as suicide which also implies act of cowardice in many cases.
Faith can overcome Mountains................
Hence,Faith is to Fear nothing,
To stayed unswayed,
The power to surmount,whatever the obstacle,
Faith is the source of all solutions,an engibe to sail through.........
On a thrilling voyage of life,
A Life victory over all- Daisaku Ikeda-President:Soka Gakkai International.
People were created to be loved...... things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos is because, things are being loved.....and people are being used......Think over it my Dear Folks..................
