My very 1st ever in FEMINA-Woman of Substance :-)

A tag-FEMINA : woman of substance which is imprinted in minds nationwide since time immemorial and as i grew up watching those Glam Divas,beauty pageants and reading nice write ups featured in the magazine which clearly defines GEN NEXT woman of 21st century who in true terms can be labelled-BITCH(Babe in Total Control of Herself) :-)

A chance online encounter with one of my sister like(school buddy's sis who writes features for FEMINA) who asked me to pen down my thoughts after having liked some of my FB updates regarding the story she was working on was "What do you hate about being single?" 

Actually i never thought so hard regarding my single status unless was asked to give my bytes and i know one thing for sure that i can never lie to my pen and my man(dunno where he exists if at all :P)Net issues and deadline i just wrote whatever i could in short span straight from heart as been always Bindas regarding my single status though been bugged to death by plenty and my BIG B lists the top....Ya i did put on my thinking cap for a while what i hate most being single????When majority of my friends are settled for life with a new family and adorable babies,whats holding me back?

My original write up for the FEMINA article is as below :-

“Boy to a Girl- Are you single”

Girl- No i am in relationship with my freedom” 

“Freedom”, sigh –heavy word and some thoughts to ponder while i was taking a stroll, analyzing my life-myself-independent,headstrong,qualified(armed with double masters)love creativity and dance being passion and now what is the missing link in my life? A cup of coffee to share, fighting over remote while watching idiot box, shoulder to cry,give a hug,that special someone who can fill this vacum and emptiness. One of my favourite flicks-Backup Plan wherein depicting a independent girl opting single motherhood but a chance meet with Mr Right changes her life 360 degree gives so much optimism. I am dreamy and super filmy that i have back of my mind-Benchmark made-Aditya Kashyap(character played by Shahid) of Jab We Met as my Mr.Right-and don’t wanna settle for anybody else and hence didnot end up dating for so many years though met many men having different temperament in due course and also experienced bitter heart ache but cherry self in me always says”Never give up on Love-most beautiful emotion and God’s greatest gift) Got some wonderful insights from this flick "He is just not that into you" which says-May be all happy endings doesn't include a wonderful guy,may be it's U,picking up the pieces and starting over,finding yourself better up for FUTURE and may be the Happy Ending is just MOVING ON...but i disagree because to sum up, one thing hate about being single- Well Life is too short and this exciting journey can get only better if shared with that one special person God has written in my destiny but who is taking ages to appear in my life and the very thought of growing old alone is killing and what i hate most about being single and also being deprive of experiencing “motherhood which is said to change everything for any woman" And who on earth don't wish to experience such state of bliss and care?

EDITED ARTICLE actually published(space constraints and lack of proof read) which actually rightfully said by one of my very good buddy Shiv that they took out RAS from Rasgulla :-(

Being single makes me feel like there is a missing link in my life-having no one to share a cup of coffee with or to fight over the TV remote.I want to fall in love.And its upsetting that it is taking so long for Right to walk into my life. The very thought of growing old is disheartening.

Anyone reading the above would have desperate judgement about me, lol :-) I wish they had captured the very essence i wanted to convey but i understand space constraints and other issues do crop up from time to time...And i got to know via another school friend that she saw my write up in FEMINA saying "Good one,Ronmi and i was excited to grab a copy though was little disappointed with the edited version.........But good news and taking things on positive stride, i am glad Favourite Pic of mine clicked by my Lucky Charm & Dear Friend for life-Bhaisahab was published in none other but nationwide Glam magazine-FEMINA :-) Many friends across loved my pic and that matters and mentioned wonderful pic, who clicked,even my relatives and all asked :-) I was super excited to share the same with Magician himself who captured me so beautifully in his lens :-) 

Infact i was surprised one friend of mine,his sister send him FEMINA copy knowing i am in his FB list,lol and i was wondering do guys read FEMINA as well hahahhahaha :-)

These are certainly some FUN moments to cherish in life and certainly i will treasure this copy and when alive will show my MR RIGHT in this lifetime  :-) on the day of Proposal,lol :-) :-) Does the old adage in Hindi, " Sabar ka phal meetha hoga", hold true ??????  chuckles ;-) :P 

Diary for XLERs-2011 - 2013 by RON

Sudden thought came to return to my roots giving a miss to exotic Paris & Spain........
Landed up in Tatanagar in the months it has heavy downpour of Rain..........
So many ???????? being only stranger in batch of odd 240,joining as Bummer......

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Irony that during my initial days i knew only loads and loads of Hummer..........
Been Listening to XL ki Kudiyan sinces ages....Been a Bodhi Fan since college days....
Never thought would join the legacy and bandwagon someday.....
Got familiar with XL Culture-"Bhasad", terms like DCP,Frax & Grax............
But my SuperFavourite is "GAS" :P
Shall miss Coffee at Dadus & awesome food of Bishuda around midnite........
Of course there were certain negative stuffs which were ain't right........
May be being silly me kept unrealistic expectations...........
And wanted to feel more like a Xlers than just a Guest...........
But brushed with reality when someone said "I am just a passing cloud" :-(
Had some bestest times be Euphoria Concert or Dancing for events......
I simply want to take back plethora of positive fun memories over negative dents..
Though the word "Placement" & crazy obsession of India's Best Brains drove me crazy........
Seeing complex jigsaw puzzles 1st time ever made my vision bit hazy.............
I was wondering why did i land up here when everything didnot seem right.......

Coz in recent era, usual attitude towards Friendship is "Out of Mind,Out of Sight"......
But connecting the dots i realized that God wanted me to befriend most amazing person who is a real source of a lifetime Inspiration for "Creative Soul" in me.........
Will remember the Random conversations,walk and midnite tea.........
And of course will try to visit "Bodh Gaya" & Dimna" someday you see :-)

Here's wishing everyone Life's best ahead and extreme apologies if my stay for the term caused any problem to anyone..........Goodluck!!Tc..........Cheers :-)

Diary for XLERs-greater good J

Bhargav(my fellow Assamese in Tatanagar) : Obhong Bhargavor,antor khon emaan besi sundar, he is like a coconut,soft inside and hard outer………………

Shiv : Below are few lines i have composed especially for you :-) (My attempt in shudh Hindi) :P 

"Mile hum gyaan ke sagar main dube hua Tatanagri main Shiv Sankar se..........

Natkhat ,gambhir, ucch bichaar,har topic main main jankaari main leti unse...........

Haale Janaab ka wall-hall of fame dekhne layak...........

Par samaj pe aaye na itna nayak :-)

Dheeraj ka udahran.........Kalyug main heera........

Jo kabhi na ved bhau kaare doston se kiya tera kiya mera..........

MAXI ki shaan,Kaare aage Jeevan main khub Roshan aur naam.......

Yehi hain mera sache Dil se chahat aur Bhagwan Shivji ko apna pranaam :-)

Sangeeta : So few lines in your honour,my dearest friend in XL who means so much to me :-)

Its funny,weird,strange that i can't still recollect our first encounter........

As it was with momentum our gr8 bond of Friendship striked and with time geared with much love and power :-)

I was touched with her tender care and warmth.............
Amidst strangers she was the girl with the golden heart.........

Apart from going out of her way and making my Bday special.........

She is so sensitive,let alone being gentle...............

Going to GYM for few days we went being lazy me seem Fun

She made me always feel comfortable,got a smile on my face even when i wanted to pack my bags and run :-)

Sharing the comfort zone,sms,pouring my heart out and can discuss anything with her under the sun.............

I want the life's best to come to her..........

Her "Prince Charming"will be lucky i can cent percent assure..............

She can heal wounds and has the perfect cure..........

With her magical words with polite touch and intentions so pure.............

Shall miss the days and times in XLRI a lot, and i know how lucky i am to have befriended someone so nice and makes you feel special in a place as if its always your..........................

Vasudha : "Vasudha" but Vasu for few special near and dear ones..........
Who has lot of guns and can put efforts in many stuffs in tons........
Her loyalty towards P & G is mind-blowing..........
Always in her conversations there will be a villain name Kakani who made Xlers life damn screwing 

A simple girl with big dreams..........
Who loves to gorge on cold drinks and icecreams 
SITcoms are her Fav.TP,
"Being very Focussed" in life is her USP 
I shall miss the long walks with you thoughout XL and outings at Dhaba......
Looking foward to perform at your Shaadi "a special Garbaa"
I could share innermost thoughts with her with so much ease...
I know our bond of friendship is never bound to cease

Koustubh : The lines here-raw attempt in bangla-disclaimer don't laugh 

Babumosai......kothai jao?
Aar kauto door jete habe
Aami jaano Eoro Trip  ......
Tumi kon gaulpo ta sonale taare Ma'am keta?
"Bong connection sobi dekho chila 

Meaning-What i wanted to mean is where u goin? and how far and i know its Euro Trip :-) What stories u wanna cook/make dem hear-French Beauties, Make them watch Bong connection :P

(Mix of Hindi/English and Bangla Kobita)

Koustubh Chattopadhyay aka Chatterjee-My True Buddy ChatterBox BPDP :P

Intelligent Bong chelle eta we met in Tatanagar and started first FB discussion over Superstar Rajesh Khanna’s demise…………………

Though regret till date missed bikeride and watching together Dimna Sunrise L

Consumer Behaviour lecture what we thought cold vibes was initial ice breaker……

 Started conversations seeing my frustrations via FB vented in Independence Day but over time our beautiful bond of friendship grew & now we share anything even hangover, cookie and liquor J

Just one group study and 20 session of prof ,BPDP genius covered in 30 minutes,how cool…..

I could clear the subject and decent grade with 0 prep and initially I was a fool……..

Coz why the hell so long to interact as my life would have been much simpler and fun……

Sharing music, bangla talks, catching up at Bishuda and sharing everything under the sun……

Most awesome treat if anyone bestowed upon me in Tatanagar was none other but caring BPDP

Yum food & Chinese being my Fav,A must visit Hong Kong inspite hectic days and busy bee

Well the secret to BPDP starts with initially BABUMOSAI, me giving typical Bong touch…..

Rest of acronym will elaborate during his Euro Trip convo and meeting French & Dutch……

Someone was kinda surprise and enthralled at ways of Videsh culture & Firangi Effect…..

College get together, seeing open invites, mood of rejoice,Euro Trip back home loads to reflect...

Celluloid in reality-Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara skydiving stunt…….

With another sporty Indian damsel Kastur Kali who cooked and was bold and upfront…….

We have to catch hold of Papon and hope to jam together soon and write musical melody…

Have to yet finalize the song wordings and not just in lines of Romeo Juliet & scene balcony………

Saurav Dada-Koustubh’s evergreen Prerna and from his experiences gets motivation…….

And helps getting Life’s new zest and ideas leading to change and innovation……

Now elaborating PDP in lines of Beora Beori talks and 123 tequila down and cheers…..

Vodka, Rum, Mojito,B 52, Whisky shots, but I dislike Beer

Been ages drank together with any buddy,last was wine in diwali

But I can vouch I can’t drink like a fish as while in Maximum City days but like to chill maari…

Potential Drinking partner kemon asis…………..

Trust is always there which is lifelong sustain and kabhi bhi no or low risk……..

Imteha ho gayi intezaar ki aayi na kuch khabar mere yaar ki

Kyunki aaj kal woh khoye khoye se hain kisi Kali ki yaadon me baase aur suno aage dilki……

Main dua karoongi har khwahish puri ho BPDP ki and mile use apna saacha pyar…..

Jiski unki hain Talaash sadiyon se but Mere Dost waqt sabhika aata hain yaar…..

So mera bhi ? kabhi nahin rahenga hamesha aur waise yakin hain mujhe aapne Shivji par

Chadi muhje aapki yaari jaise Daaru Desi……

Pata hain aapko Amstedam bohut hi accha laga and preference mostly videshi…..

But aab toh swadesh laut aaye hain aap BPDP…….

Last term at XL hamari jaan par aapka swagat hain aur kyunki……

Abhi “Placements” mega season hogi aur umeed hain destiny

Humaari raahen phir se milenge waise bhi party hain due

Aur bohut si baat baaki………Mere Funny caring Dost BPDP :-)

Smriti : Smriti Yaar tune toh direct dil pe jagah bana le sada ke liye........
Few lines in ur honour :-)(my raw attempt in shudh Hindi :-)
Chalte Chalte hum takraaie na toofan ya aandi but ek ghazab bandi....
Woh hain "Smriti"..............
Jisne humme milaaya woh toh bichar gaye lekin mujhe tohfe main mila sada ke liye ek saache dost.......meri XL ki sabse warm chulbuli host.........

Saada ke liye hain yeh dostaana humari yaari
Bhaale badle duniya saadi.............
Phir se milenge ek hi rang manch ke khiladi
Aur nihaarenge, sawarenge yeh jag humari :-)

BIKRAM PAAJI :  Thanks to Bikram Paaji that did not had to step outtta campus often as mess food was pretty awesome that I did not miss my Fav. being typical me “FISH” in the menu……..I simply admire his jovial nature & first when I encountered him was wondering who is this innocent looking Paaji J    Not only making my Farewell super lovely by is funny antics and making everyone write on my T-shirt J These are some XL evergreen memories I shall cherish for a lifetime. Wishing you all the happiness and success ahead, Paaji u simply ROCK Cheers!!

RAM : The one word that describes him best is “GEM”  No one has been so caring and shown concern as Ram during my tenure in Tatanagar………No wonder he rightfully deserves to be ISEP secy(unlike few others who just their to show off their power but never gave damn and are so insensitive) and I am glad he is or else I won’t have got a chance to befriend him……..Your Farwell msg for me “SETTLE HERE” is super awesome and pouring my heart out and discussing inner turmoil gave me much relief and felt a huge burden was released as initially I left like a “ZOMBIE” and it was all in my head……………..Be the same amazing person you are and I know you won’t change that in you because you are few people I have came across who are so grounded, matured and genuinely cares………..I know one thing for sure we gonna be forever keeping in touch and I wish you Life’s best forever and always…Cheers!!

ARPIT :  Bonjour Monsieur -My 1^st XL buddy whose emails cleared my apprehensions of coming to a new place amidst new batch mates that too all alone……I simply look upto his amazing jest for life :-)

Be cooling me down regarding “Grades tension” and who offered his helping hand to make me PPC(though I chickened out of the course later,lol)  Well sorry buddy though could spend much time or teach you French(tried compensating my Videos & Docs) but here’s wishing you all the very best ahead and hope you have the best exchange tenure in Europe and need not say “Stay in touch”  Bientot(see you soon in French)

BHANU : Simple humble guy who is troubled by life which is always playing hide and seek with him……………A super tough prof as Rajkumar is totally impressed by the insights he brings in the class………..It was nice to share a lot during XL tenure with him. Here's wishing you all the happiness and success ahead and may your life be filled with positivity always.

SUNIL : Its really weird that I am penning down for someone I have never interacted but I could not stop the ink of the pen from flowing for someone I just want to say “Hats Off” In a batch of 240 odds, he is the only person having solid principles(though I don’t have the Right to comment much as I am not part of the so call Placement Hungama)

But from an outsider perspective who is a guest for one term I know I should not be bothered but I was completely stunned knowing about negativity that prevails in a creamy Indian B school where I came with high expectations.

I salute your bravery Dear Sunil and please never change this trait of your because our country needs people like you among crazy mad race and insensitive humans………..I shall always pray to God to give you much strength and always keep this undoubting Faith within you and move forward and climb the ladder of success. Cheers!!

Anjali & Raj : Epitome of Love, only couple who signifies the most beautiful and greatest gift by God to mortals like us…………I still remember post wet night when I send sms to Anjali saying I so love the fact to see them truly, madly,  deeply in Love and seeing that i myself for few seconds brushed aside that independent strong girl and felt the bit emptiness in my life…………Seeing their care for each other I felt like telling God why he did not bless me with that special somebody but connecting the dots I got superb reply that things happen when they meant to be and it will for sure.

Like for Raj and Anjali who from different backgrounds, and they are classic example of   “Opposites Attract” and finally love brewed between them after couple of terms and so glad its going so strong amidst all the negative energies comments and evil nazar……Touchwood and hope it remains like this forever and always.

So for both both of you I just have this one line “True Love is like a Ghost, everyone talks about it but only few have seen”

Dhruv Sethi : I don’t know what to say much about the “Perfect Gentleman ,School Kid and Mama’s Boy types, the topper of the batch and whose notes are much in demand towards the end term and I also took advantage of the same after missing couple of classes……………Just want to say that we could not interact much but here’s wishing you all the happiness and success ahead.

GKB not just Gas Kaur Bhatia but a lady of substance and guns .The warm and friendly girl among the Bummers who made the effort to befriend a stranger and exchange student and also got me in Con B group and honestly it was so much Fun,sharing insights,learning form you guys…………….Well our French classes remain pending but I know this Punjabi Soni Kudi will rock in Europe with our own jubaani and here’s wishing my dear friend all the much deserve happiness and success. Rock On!!

Shivanshu : His USP was his long curly locks initially and I was wondering when I did not know his name that who is this fun and friendly dude in mad competitive environment in XL………..Though could not get the chance to interact much all I wanna say is that always have this awesome positive zest you have for life and wishing you all the happiness and success ahead.Cheers!!

Mayur : The “Entrepreneur” guy in the campus, perfect gentleman and few nice conversations we shared……….In a way I am grateful that those conversation helped me switch from a  mega tough subject I would have struggle to another which added broader dimension and had much impact…….Until I met this FUN IItian I always had that preconceived notion of “Frustrated Geeks”……………Here’s wishing you all the happiness and success ahead and especially looking forward to see you as a successful entrepreneur in future ahead and share some business ideas.Cheers!!

Samriddhi : Was damn impressed when got to know that she might be few single soul who gives up on coveted Summer Internships to work for an NGO in outskirts which is indeed mindblowing and commendable. It was indeed nice to work together in Social Entrepreneurship and I still remember of pestering her initially as I so wanted desperately to switch to Prof.Madhukar course being bog down with wrong choice of electives initially………Keep this undying selfless passion alive and keep moving forward and I am sure with God’s grace you will reach gr8 heights.Cheers!!

Chandranshu : What to script about someone who is so skilled and creative as him………..I will always cherish one awesome email he wrote to welcome me in a new campus where initially I did not find any warmth and found many people hostile who think twice even to give a smile.

“Chandu” coincidentally this is name of another Gem of a friend of mine in Mumbai…………I learnt many positive attitude especially the way you tackle marketing probs from you and it was a great pleasure to have known you. Wishing you all the very best ahead. Cheers!!

Deepayan :  I got just one chance to interact with him and discovered how fun and jovial person he is inspite of handling the stressful “Placements” I want to wish you all the marital bliss ahead. And it was nice to know you know so much about my hometown Guwahati and looking forward to see you and your wife sometime there and you guys are most welcome to my place an dwish I am around. Take Care!!

Sudipto : I dunno what to pen down for a brother i met in XL who thinks ”out of the box” and fun to have conversations with and its sad I did not have often……….But I sincerely wish life’s very best that has to offer and stay in touch and do look out for my Blog and give your honest feedback when free.Cheers!!

Yogesh : You made real sweet attempts to befriend me, though very short interaction it was great pleasure to have known you. I still remember you made a lovely video in memories of Bollywood’s Baadshah of Romance-Late Rajesh Khanna and it was so sweet of you to mention how your dad used to dress up like him when I mention that my Dad was his one Big Fan……..Wishing you the all the very best ahead……..Need not say “Stay in touch”

Ankita : Itz nice of Maxi secy to have introduced us and it awesome conversations though very few times we have bump into each other………You are among very few ones who addressed me as “Ron” and loved your performace-Babuji Dheere Chalnaa………Need not say “Stay in touch” Cheers

Paresh : The friendly BUMMER whom I confused to be HUMMER………..It was always very nice to bump into you in the mess,though we may not have interacted much,only I remembered cribbing about Indian B schools.lol but I guess there were indeed some takeaways that’s gonna stay with me for life…………So here’s wishing you all the very best in Life ahead……..Stay in touch.Cheers!!

Mayank : First few people I befriended during initial days of XL stay………He is so approachable, nice and it was nice to have interacted few days in PPC classes until I switched the course…………..Wishing you all the very best ahead. Cheers!!

Yuvraj : It was really great to have bump into someone familiar with your college and friend circle back at your Fav.city Amchi Mumbai………Thanks to your concern during my initial days in XL wherein I was pretty lonely and felt left out………..Here’s wishing you all the happiness and success ahead.Cheers and stay in touch!!

Mainik : Our interaction s were pretty less but nevertheless you seem to come across someone fun, gentle, approachable and friendly………I remember our 1^st conversation wherein you asked me how am I finding Jamshedpur after Bangkok J  Wishing you all the very best ahead in life. Cheers and stay in touch!!

Sinchan : Well what to pen down of this crazy fun guy with whom I share my passion-Dance(something which is close to worship & my heart) One of the bestest memories of XL would be doing my evergreen Fav.track-Radha Kaise na Jaale that too impromptu and I salute the sporty spirit in you and also part of cherishing memories would be dancing same track where the Krishna was replaced by my bestest Buddy in XL-HUSAIN and it was all the more fun doing the step,3 of us and I so want to hold onto that awesome moment  Here’s wishing you Life’s best ahead.Keep Dancing,keep The Pagalpan alive always and Keep Rocking!!

Anusheel : Initially I thought how “Kharus” he is as did not include me in the FB forum where I wanted to befriend new friends coming in a new environment but later got to know the reason behind the real Bhasad………..It was nice having some good conversations limited though……..Wishing you life’s very best!!Cheers J

Priyanka Shanbhag : Common factor that binds us is Amchi Mumbai……….had course of Social Entrepreneurship common…………She is warm and nice to talk to J Hope to meet you in future too……….Tc!!

Arjya- Initially found him cold and was not aware that he is the vocalist of my Fav.evergreen Bodhi Tree With time,saw his finest performances and undoubtedly he is the soul of Bodhi(2011-13 batch) so rock so punk and the attitude my my Keep singing always and you might find me in the audience cheering for u.....Tc and wish u Goodluck ahead!!

Puja knew her 1st coz of ISEP but later discover a warm nice friend and it was nice to bump into her many at times,be mess be hostel......It was pleasure knowing u and wishing u life's best ahead!!

Sandeep : Always warm and friendly.........It was awesome lunch once when got to taste home made powder along with rice other discussions especially b4 services quiz was nice...........Here's wishing u life's best

Bimal : The only soul who approached and asked about my overseas experience apart from placements :P Very intelligent,matured guy and nice to talk ,here's wishing u life's best ahead...Tc!!

Husain Bhaisahab Bonnie for the best buddy and amazing person like him something exclusive :-)

LIFE IS A BLISS WITH BABIES :-)

On a Saturday lazy afternoon, while pondering over some thoughts i realized what i love most in this Universe.........BABIES........Adorable kids whose innocent faces,naughty acts bright up my day :-) I have always been cheerful,funny,ambitious,care free kinda girl but as time flies i realized the boundless joy i get by spending quality time with kids be my niece,nephew or friend's baby...............Fashion Magazines,Job Portals, Glimpse of Handsome Hunks has replaced with Johnson Ad-Motherhood Changes Everything :-)  The best part i like of being with babies is they don't judge and have evil thinking like many Adults,  they shower Love upon you and even more as you are more playful and Fun...........They don't judge you by your physical attributes,by the riches you are blessed(no doubt if you can afford X-box or gizmos these days ,many kids might love you loads)  Reading articles of successful working women like Indra Nooyi indeed role of a Mother is most challenging yet most joy-giving............To give firm grounding,cultural values,not succumbing to peer is the key and work-life balance force is a must.Though there is a huge difference and generation gap,how we grew up and how nowadays generation X are-individualistic but some Bonds can never change and always remain evergreen :-)

There are so many ???? in my life post MBA stint this year but i know one thing for sure that even if i don't tie the knot in-case i don't bump into the Right Guy (which i haven't in these years of my existence) and if it ain't destined BUT for sure I will try and gonna be a good Mother and that's my prime goal in life and not just a Back Up Plan(loved that movie and vouch the line-Single Mom & Proud...though its unfair for a kid to be deprived from Father's love & Care)

I had certain goals in my life ahead and was stress thinking if ever i can do justice to all the roles-Daughter,Sister,Best Friend,..........Girlfriend/Wife/Mother/GrandMa((yet to discover these roles) but taking Life it comes and going with flow suits the best...................

To conclude-"The Hand That Rocks The Cradle Is The Hand That Rules The World"

Surprise encounter with Thai(mak mak mak)

With Blessings of Thee,
Uncertainity in Life got me in Land of Free,
Call it Destiny,my strong Buddhist connection or meant to be...........
No regrets you see...............
Some Dreams did come true unexpectedly...........
Admist gloomy, hard times,roller coaster twists  surprisingly...............
As i am about to say Adieu now....................
Feeling very heavy within in a row......................
A place where outsiders were more like a Family and own friends had back stabbed and broken Trust.........
Some Memories shall cherish forever and some will treat like dirt and Rust..............
Must say some exprieneces here was an eye-opener for Life..................
Survived Floods,bitterness,seeing own like a younger bro's dead body,witnessing the Harsh realities of Life............
All i can say, an experience of Lifetime and beyond................
Will miss the lovely people dwelling in this exotic land.........
Free from mad competition and race..............
Where one can witness so much dignity and grace...............................
Wanna end saying-Kob kun kaa(Thank You in Thai)....................
But also will be a sheer delight to eyes and my soul to be in Delhi airport pretty soon amidst Beloved folks,Family and Maa :-)

Good or Bad news-Archie chooses snooty Veronica over Girl next door Betty??

Picture Perfect  :    Two does tango and is it  two’s a company and three's a crowd?..................Uff I so hate Love triangles!!

After 67-68 years of waffling, Archie Andrews has made his choice. It’s the raven-haired heiress Veronica Lodge over the girl next door Betty Cooper............

Well many might just sigh and say just another piece of fictional tale of friendship,love and end number of heartbreaks.But interestingly in my years of existence so far i have come across innumerable instances where a girl next door is never valued and a oversmart clever Bitch gets the great guy in the end and vice versa as well.Is it because the theory  “Opposites Attract” is accurate or other reason could be only someone too nice can handle extremely annoying and irritating counterpart?

I had asked this baffling question to many male counterparts infact had a hearty conversation with my own brother that why do guys give more importance to chicks with so god damn attitude over someone genuine and caring.My Big B instantly replied saying guys usually love kicks and tend to have lesser value for things easily available.Hearing this i honestly feel like kicking the asses of such losers who craves for kicks and tough chase over genuine warmth and care. Its true the recent song by Ali Zafar in musical romantic-London Paris Newyork wherein he says "Ladki ek full on chase hai" but i agree "Kaisa yeh ek phase hai" :-)

I was pondering over many deep thoughts but i failed miserably to act like some freaking Bitch with attitude because i always strongly believe a genuine human would accept me the way i am.I don't know whether i am right or wrong with my solid fundas and principles towards life but i can't be someone what i am not even it costs losing someone i genuinely love and care from deepest core of my heart.

In my journey so far have met some professional stalwarts but when it comes to knowing them personally i realized how shallow they are.Infact the dialogue between Hrithik and Katrina in a blockbuster-Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara is so apt when Katrina coins the term Slave for a workaholic BF who understands only the language of money over love.Basically the sprite ad-"Dekhawe pe mat jao apni akal lagau" holds true for those so called creamy guys associated with  mega brands.

As every coin has two sides so also guys can shout at rooftops humming the popular song by Good Charlotte "Girls don't like guys,Girls like cars and money" but the end line in this song "All the boys and all the girls are losing their soul in the material world" is what i would like to sum up which is nothing but bitter or so call ugly truth.