A tag-FEMINA : woman of substance which is imprinted in minds nationwide since time immemorial and as i grew up watching those Glam Divas,beauty pageants and reading nice write ups featured in the magazine which clearly defines GEN NEXT woman of 21st century who in true terms can be labelled-BITCH(Babe in Total Control of Herself) :-)
A chance online encounter with one of my sister like(school buddy's sis who writes features for FEMINA) who asked me to pen down my thoughts after having liked some of my FB updates regarding the story she was working on was "What do you hate about being single?"
Actually i never thought so hard regarding my single status unless was asked to give my bytes and i know one thing for sure that i can never lie to my pen and my man(dunno where he exists if at all :P)Net issues and deadline i just wrote whatever i could in short span straight from heart as been always Bindas regarding my single status though been bugged to death by plenty and my BIG B lists the top....Ya i did put on my thinking cap for a while what i hate most being single????When majority of my friends are settled for life with a new family and adorable babies,whats holding me back?
My original write up for the FEMINA article is as below :-
“Boy to a Girl- Are you single”
Girl- No i am in relationship with my freedom”
“Freedom”, sigh –heavy word and some thoughts to ponder while i was taking a stroll, analyzing my life-myself-independent,headstrong,qualified(armed with double masters)love creativity and dance being passion and now what is the missing link in my life? A cup of coffee to share, fighting over remote while watching idiot box, shoulder to cry,give a hug,that special someone who can fill this vacum and emptiness. One of my favourite flicks-Backup Plan wherein depicting a independent girl opting single motherhood but a chance meet with Mr Right changes her life 360 degree gives so much optimism. I am dreamy and super filmy that i have back of my mind-Benchmark made-Aditya Kashyap(character played by Shahid) of Jab We Met as my Mr.Right-and don’t wanna settle for anybody else and hence didnot end up dating for so many years though met many men having different temperament in due course and also experienced bitter heart ache but cherry self in me always says”Never give up on Love-most beautiful emotion and God’s greatest gift) Got some wonderful insights from this flick "He is just not that into you" which says-May be all happy endings doesn't include a wonderful guy,may be it's U,picking up the pieces and starting over,finding yourself better up for FUTURE and may be the Happy Ending is just MOVING ON...but i disagree because to sum up, one thing hate about being single- Well Life is too short and this exciting journey can get only better if shared with that one special person God has written in my destiny but who is taking ages to appear in my life and the very thought of growing old alone is killing and what i hate most about being single and also being deprive of experiencing “motherhood which is said to change everything for any woman" And who on earth don't wish to experience such state of bliss and care?
EDITED ARTICLE actually published(space constraints and lack of proof read) which actually rightfully said by one of my very good buddy Shiv that they took out RAS from Rasgulla :-(
Being single makes me feel like there is a missing link in my life-having no one to share a cup of coffee with or to fight over the TV remote.I want to fall in love.And its upsetting that it is taking so long for Right to walk into my life. The very thought of growing old is disheartening.
Anyone reading the above would have desperate judgement about me, lol :-) I wish they had captured the very essence i wanted to convey but i understand space constraints and other issues do crop up from time to time...And i got to know via another school friend that she saw my write up in FEMINA saying "Good one,Ronmi and i was excited to grab a copy though was little disappointed with the edited version.........But good news and taking things on positive stride, i am glad Favourite Pic of mine clicked by my Lucky Charm & Dear Friend for life-Bhaisahab was published in none other but nationwide Glam magazine-FEMINA :-) Many friends across loved my pic and that matters and mentioned wonderful pic, who clicked,even my relatives and all asked :-) I was super excited to share the same with Magician himself who captured me so beautifully in his lens :-)
Infact i was surprised one friend of mine,his sister send him FEMINA copy knowing i am in his FB list,lol and i was wondering do guys read FEMINA as well hahahhahaha :-)
These are certainly some FUN moments to cherish in life and certainly i will treasure this copy and when alive will show my MR RIGHT in this lifetime :-) on the day of Proposal,lol :-) :-) Does the old adage in Hindi, " Sabar ka phal meetha hoga", hold true ?????? chuckles ;-) :P
