Picture Perfect : Two does tango and is it two’s a company and three's a crowd?..................Uff I so hate Love triangles!!
After 67-68 years of waffling, Archie Andrews has made his choice. It’s the raven-haired heiress Veronica Lodge over the girl next door Betty Cooper............
Well many might just sigh and say just another piece of fictional tale of friendship,love and end number of heartbreaks.But interestingly in my years of existence so far i have come across innumerable instances where a girl next door is never valued and a oversmart clever Bitch gets the great guy in the end and vice versa as well.Is it because the theory “Opposites Attract” is accurate or other reason could be only someone too nice can handle extremely annoying and irritating counterpart?
I had asked this baffling question to many male counterparts infact had a hearty conversation with my own brother that why do guys give more importance to chicks with so god damn attitude over someone genuine and caring.My Big B instantly replied saying guys usually love kicks and tend to have lesser value for things easily available.Hearing this i honestly feel like kicking the asses of such losers who craves for kicks and tough chase over genuine warmth and care. Its true the recent song by Ali Zafar in musical romantic-London Paris Newyork wherein he says "Ladki ek full on chase hai" but i agree "Kaisa yeh ek phase hai" :-)
I was pondering over many deep thoughts but i failed miserably to act like some freaking Bitch with attitude because i always strongly believe a genuine human would accept me the way i am.I don't know whether i am right or wrong with my solid fundas and principles towards life but i can't be someone what i am not even it costs losing someone i genuinely love and care from deepest core of my heart.
In my journey so far have met some professional stalwarts but when it comes to knowing them personally i realized how shallow they are.Infact the dialogue between Hrithik and Katrina in a blockbuster-Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara is so apt when Katrina coins the term Slave for a workaholic BF who understands only the language of money over love.Basically the sprite ad-"Dekhawe pe mat jao apni akal lagau" holds true for those so called creamy guys associated with mega brands.
As every coin has two sides so also guys can shout at rooftops humming the popular song by Good Charlotte "Girls don't like guys,Girls like cars and money" but the end line in this song "All the boys and all the girls are losing their soul in the material world" is what i would like to sum up which is nothing but bitter or so call ugly truth.
in a way u mite be correct... but even I don't like super sweet n nice guys ... i too need some kicks lol :D .... n good girls do get good, caring guys who pamper them like babies as for the bitchy attitude girls I too have seen them in different, sweet,(completely open) and friendly avatar with their boys though they might be bitchy n annoying for the girls .. that what gives the guy a kick I guess that he knows his girl in a different way then the otr guys n girls ...thats what i feel
ReplyDeleteSuper like and agree with your comment....Yes but being hypocrite with someone one claims to be head over heals?? Your last line touched me the most "he knows his girl in a different way then the otr guys n girls" :-)
ReplyDeletenice...good use of day to day observations nd i really liked the use of xamples...wch in anyway may hav gone unnoticed.... I TOO LYK GLAMOUROUS GURLS!!!!!...instead of the "gurl next door" 1's
ReplyDeleteit was a nice column to read upon and i must say:the boys who go for attitude & bitchy kind of girl will always be loosers.& i think they regret later on
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