Judgemental Janta :-)

“If you judge people, you have no time to love them.” ― Mother Teresa

Only soul as noble as Mother Teresa can give such indepth touching statement. Sometimes we go through such upheavels even Blood relations fail to understand us. They forget in their tough times we never shun away but in their sunny days they show their true colours. Welcome to the world full of Judgemental Janta :-) not just Mango Poeple :P You have slightly bigger waistline, poeple are after your lives not for healthy reasons but to pull you down saying no guy would want to date you. Who the hell is the guy to decide that and my bigger question does he himself have a physique like John Abraham or Hrithik Roshan? I am in no mood to please the society and life is simply way to short and beautiful even to make such an attempt.

Such is our society, obession for fair skins never ends. But glad to see slowly social norms undergoing much needed change. People complaining attitude will never transform. A girl stepping in her 20s, arey iski shaadi karwa do(get her married off) , in mid 20s why is she not yet having babies and again early 30s Oh what about second baby and if husband is away for work, OMG they both are heading for divorce as husband having a secret extra marital affair and this is just one of its example as task of pleasing people and society is next to impossible and trying to attempt is sheer foolishness.

Another common trend you will notice, Bitching Friends lol. They will stay together, hang out together, girlie gossips, conversations revolving around rich bloke and all the materials world can have but in another company will talk negative about each other. I wonder how can friendship be just a need for convenience over genuine stuffs.

So if you into spirituality, you do Buddhist chant at young age then they will say not meant for you. You should party hard, go out for dates and in 60s get in to all this but i question why should i abandon Faith which was with me in my tough times over superficial people and things? 

They will judge you till the time of your funeral but who gives a damn. Same people who ridicule Amitabh Bachchan when his company was in debts worshipped him post KBC. Same people who put Saurav Ganguly in pedestal once treated him like nobody later. So success is directly proportionate to the people liking us? But is it for genuine reasons? Never. They will always probe in your life asking any good news knowing you are struggling on your own even post losing your beloved Father.

Matlabi Duniya Matlabi Log but I am not a pessimistic. Mind you again you talk practically, sometimes your own best friend labels you as negative.  Can we continue such friendship which lacks basic understanding and trust?  Icing on cake when we write articles, poems revolving around mushy stuffs and romance, again presence of judgemental janta to ruin the real essence of the article by commenting poor girl, she is alone she needs a Boyfriend. I don’t want to snub back or either sound rude and say Poor You, fuck yourself but want to kill them with a dazzling smile. For that also another judgement, Poor Thing, she is affected or always taken for granted.

What I fail to understand is the hypocrisy. For instance same thing I do becomes annoying and when you do deserves Oscars.

I am signing off from the world of judgemental janta as I have found solace in self and my independence quoting  “Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect -and I don't live to be- but before you start pointing fingers... make sure you hands are clean!”  ― Bob Marley

P.S Judging others is a slander as per spiritual teachings as everyone has potential to be good. Biggest example-King Ashoka, who could imagine a person responsible for bloodshed will reform and take up Buddhism.