LIFE IS A BLISS WITH BABIES :-)

On a Saturday lazy afternoon, while pondering over some thoughts i realized what i love most in this Universe.........BABIES........Adorable kids whose innocent faces,naughty acts bright up my day :-) I have always been cheerful,funny,ambitious,care free kinda girl but as time flies i realized the boundless joy i get by spending quality time with kids be my niece,nephew or friend's baby...............Fashion Magazines,Job Portals, Glimpse of Handsome Hunks has replaced with Johnson Ad-Motherhood Changes Everything :-)  The best part i like of being with babies is they don't judge and have evil thinking like many Adults,  they shower Love upon you and even more as you are more playful and Fun...........They don't judge you by your physical attributes,by the riches you are blessed(no doubt if you can afford X-box or gizmos these days ,many kids might love you loads)  Reading articles of successful working women like Indra Nooyi indeed role of a Mother is most challenging yet most joy-giving............To give firm grounding,cultural values,not succumbing to peer is the key and work-life balance force is a must.Though there is a huge difference and generation gap,how we grew up and how nowadays generation X are-individualistic but some Bonds can never change and always remain evergreen :-)

There are so many ???? in my life post MBA stint this year but i know one thing for sure that even if i don't tie the knot in-case i don't bump into the Right Guy (which i haven't in these years of my existence) and if it ain't destined BUT for sure I will try and gonna be a good Mother and that's my prime goal in life and not just a Back Up Plan(loved that movie and vouch the line-Single Mom & Proud...though its unfair for a kid to be deprived from Father's love & Care)

I had certain goals in my life ahead and was stress thinking if ever i can do justice to all the roles-Daughter,Sister,Best Friend,..........Girlfriend/Wife/Mother/GrandMa((yet to discover these roles) but taking Life it comes and going with flow suits the best...................

To conclude-"The Hand That Rocks The Cradle Is The Hand That Rules The World"

Surprise encounter with Thai(mak mak mak)

With Blessings of Thee,
Uncertainity in Life got me in Land of Free,
Call it Destiny,my strong Buddhist connection or meant to be...........
No regrets you see...............
Some Dreams did come true unexpectedly...........
Admist gloomy, hard times,roller coaster twists  surprisingly...............
As i am about to say Adieu now....................
Feeling very heavy within in a row......................
A place where outsiders were more like a Family and own friends had back stabbed and broken Trust.........
Some Memories shall cherish forever and some will treat like dirt and Rust..............
Must say some exprieneces here was an eye-opener for Life..................
Survived Floods,bitterness,seeing own like a younger bro's dead body,witnessing the Harsh realities of Life............
All i can say, an experience of Lifetime and beyond................
Will miss the lovely people dwelling in this exotic land.........
Free from mad competition and race..............
Where one can witness so much dignity and grace...............................
Wanna end saying-Kob kun kaa(Thank You in Thai)....................
But also will be a sheer delight to eyes and my soul to be in Delhi airport pretty soon amidst Beloved folks,Family and Maa :-)

Good or Bad news-Archie chooses snooty Veronica over Girl next door Betty??

Picture Perfect  :    Two does tango and is it  two’s a company and three's a crowd?..................Uff I so hate Love triangles!!

After 67-68 years of waffling, Archie Andrews has made his choice. It’s the raven-haired heiress Veronica Lodge over the girl next door Betty Cooper............

Well many might just sigh and say just another piece of fictional tale of friendship,love and end number of heartbreaks.But interestingly in my years of existence so far i have come across innumerable instances where a girl next door is never valued and a oversmart clever Bitch gets the great guy in the end and vice versa as well.Is it because the theory  “Opposites Attract” is accurate or other reason could be only someone too nice can handle extremely annoying and irritating counterpart?

I had asked this baffling question to many male counterparts infact had a hearty conversation with my own brother that why do guys give more importance to chicks with so god damn attitude over someone genuine and caring.My Big B instantly replied saying guys usually love kicks and tend to have lesser value for things easily available.Hearing this i honestly feel like kicking the asses of such losers who craves for kicks and tough chase over genuine warmth and care. Its true the recent song by Ali Zafar in musical romantic-London Paris Newyork wherein he says "Ladki ek full on chase hai" but i agree "Kaisa yeh ek phase hai" :-)

I was pondering over many deep thoughts but i failed miserably to act like some freaking Bitch with attitude because i always strongly believe a genuine human would accept me the way i am.I don't know whether i am right or wrong with my solid fundas and principles towards life but i can't be someone what i am not even it costs losing someone i genuinely love and care from deepest core of my heart.

In my journey so far have met some professional stalwarts but when it comes to knowing them personally i realized how shallow they are.Infact the dialogue between Hrithik and Katrina in a blockbuster-Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara is so apt when Katrina coins the term Slave for a workaholic BF who understands only the language of money over love.Basically the sprite ad-"Dekhawe pe mat jao apni akal lagau" holds true for those so called creamy guys associated with  mega brands.

As every coin has two sides so also guys can shout at rooftops humming the popular song by Good Charlotte "Girls don't like guys,Girls like cars and money" but the end line in this song "All the boys and all the girls are losing their soul in the material world" is what i would like to sum up which is nothing but bitter or so call ugly truth.

Is there any real value of one's Life?

Suicides increasing at an alarming rate kept me pondering over some stuffs so felt a strong urge to penned some thoughts.Have lost a friend who took impulsive decision and gave up one's most precious Gift by God-LIFE............I simply don't understand why recently IIM-Bangalore,super intelligent and independent girl took such a harsh step and gave up just because a GUY broke up with her over Social Media?Then starts the blamegame,is Social Media the real culprit?But the point is when one undergoes deepression and thinks of taking extreme decision can't they think cooly few seconds about people who unconditionally Loves them i.e Family,Parents and some genuine friends.Is the GUY who has just come to your life is so important that a coward act of his pushes to to the cliff and you jump and give up on Beautiful Life?

Depression is an curable illness,it just takes time.Though many at times a depression patient is closer to death.......I myself went through a tough phase in 2009 but which made me realize "Tough Times don't last,tough People Do"......Thank You is just a word of Gratitude i can express to my wellwishers who helped me out from a difficult phase and it was my Mom,pillar of strength who told me not to give up and i realized if something happens to me,its my parents who gonna get badly hurt and affected.And i resolved that no matter what i will never give up on Life and i am born a Fighter,nothing came easy to me,always struggle and staying away from family and beloved ones is synonmous with me and now its getting so monotonous :-)

When my Dear Friend,Miki told me about a beatiful girl who took her life over relationship issue,i was speechless and damn upset.I felt blessed to be single and that i am not with a  wrong person rather wait for the right guy however long time frame it may be,wait is total worth.Successful models and foremer beauty queens  like Nafisa Joseph,Kuljeet Randhawa,Viveka Babajee were severely depressed,unable to cope Life pressures,failed relationships and chose the path of suicide.Dating a wrong person is quite possible and moving on may not be easy for some but that doesnot mean one fails to see worth in oneself and falls prey to Depression.Is it worth to give up on Life for men who never valued you and played with your emotions?Is scoring 100% was such an obession and securing the most coveted seat in elite institition over on'e's life that so many teenagers are commiting suicide.

“INDIA HAS become the suicide capital of the world,” Farmers and students are most at risk. According to the latest statistics of India’s National Crime Records Bureau, 127,151 people in India committed suicide in 2009. This indicates an increase of 1.7 per cent over the previous year’s figures. Suicide is a great social leveller in India, Asia’s third largest and one the world’s fastest growing economies with a projected GDP growth of 8.6 per cent from 2010–11.

Jaago People,rise up,Life taken too seriously is not worth living.Life is about small joys like taking out time to have dinner with your beloved,going for long drives,enjoying street food with group of friends,watching a nice movie,also chasing one's dreams and ambition but not always about coming 1st in classs and at cost of one's Life.Most ridiculous to give up for someone who never realized your true worth and unconditional Love.

The movie-Jhootha Hi Sahi last year starting-John Abraham dealt with suicidal tendencies and how talking to someone can work wonders.I wish i had known that my dear friend was going through severe pain,i could have saved a life,till date i can never forget that news and in future i would be forever ready to be there for those who need me if really depressed.Guys break up is not worth to end your life,one should give time and move on,i understand easier said then done but its ain't impossible,trust me,wounds do get healed with time as they say "Time is the best healer" :-) ................."Live and Let Live"   Enjoy every moment like as if its the last as with uncertainties like terrorism and blasts we don't know what Life and Destiny has in store but till our last breathe we can make a worthwhile living and not think of extreme act as suicide which also implies act of cowardice in many cases.

Faith can overcome Mountains................

Hence,Faith is to Fear nothing,

To stayed unswayed,

The power to surmount,whatever the obstacle,

Faith is the source of all solutions,an engibe to sail through.........

On  a thrilling voyage of life,

A Life victory over all-   Daisaku Ikeda-President:Soka Gakkai International.

People were created to be loved...... things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos is because, things are being loved.....and people are being used......Think over it my Dear Folks..................

Is It Worth?

Is it worth to stay away from your beloved Family in search of your true identity?
Is it worth to be brave enough to handle everything on own and have self pity?
Is it worth to take loads of stress and do something you love but bad timings make it so painful....................
Is it worth when you are helpless and want to get drunk and be cheerful?
Is it worth to pursue passion at cost of something equally precious............
Is it worth to love someone when humans in Kalyug are treacherous?
Is it worth to give your heart and soul to someone who is so selfish yet so nice in a way?
Is it worth to believe that Talent is like sun rays
and that no Politics can deter it from reaching masses...................
Is it worth being Honest,Frank and Genuine...........
Rather later feeling miserable and ruined...................................
Is it worth to never to say NO
that cost of getting Hurt...............
Is it worth paying a heavy price for being who you are..........
Rather pretending and following the Herd,
Is it worth screwing your happiness and mind over materialistic money,
In process losing out on priceless wealth such as Relationship & Honey :-)

What is truly worth then????????????????
Its people who care,who share and are tender.........................
Who are in true sense a great Leader,
No biasness or favoritism...........................
Balancing is so important but at times we fail to manage.........
Hence the damage.............
In form of pokey noses trying to highlight your weakness,
But truth is five fingers in a Hand ain't same in length so applies to Individuals.............
U might be a scholar but that does not give you a right to demean someone who is having creative bent of mind....
Grades may be your lifeline,mind you mine ain't revolves around same.............
U may be a wellwisher but your sarcasm sucks....................

To conclude."i know i am totally worth it and i pity those who look down on others because EMPTY VESSELS MAKES MORE NOISE" :P:P

Some ????

The breezy wind whispers in my ears.....
Says,wipe your incessant flow of tears
And let go all the countless fears,
Coz this is just one Beautiful Life you have my Dear Friend.........
Even if prophecy holds true that the World is coming to an end...........
I questioned to Thee.........
Why always me????
Victim of blamegame that to by some own folks who are so lame,
Many at times.........
Is luck determined by Feng Shui and Wind Chimes??
Can some wounds of Past be healed
And make me feel relieve.........
As i feel dizzy remembering those bitter scars..........
Circumstances have made me damn care even if someone is from earth or mars.
In recent times,where hatred, jealousy,racism and all negative energies so prevalent,
I wonder why talent and merit takes a backseat and seem irrelevant?
Politics,Money,Power and networking may be the buzzword....
But i say-Faith,Patience and Confidence is my sword.
Be Destiny or Karma,
It's our Dharma for own Human Revolution.............
Not trying to preach or screech
Neither the time to give free advice.........
Don't follow the Herd or Mad Race......
As we might get the coveted treasure amidst solid pressure
May be at cost of something as priceless as LOVE.....
If a soul is too contend still there are????
Will this uncertainty ahead ever end?

Modern Fairy Tale-Courtesy-WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES??Sherry Argov

Once upon a time,there was a Princess.Along,came a Prince who asked her if she would like to ride on his white horse.She said,"I'd like to take a ride on your horse,but i can't right now because i am a little busy getting my own horse.Go ride off into the sunset without me and i'll catch up to you a little later." Suddenly,the prince is dumbfounded.He's never heard anything like this before.Something clicks inside him and it starts a fire within him that he can't put out,because she doesnot need him.And then he says "I have to be with HER for the rest of my life.

Then they fall in love,marry and ride offinto the sunset.And then she tortures HIM.........lovingly ever after.......

And for my girlies,would love to share some Golden Relationship Tips from the comic flick "RULES PYAR KA SUPERHIT FORMULA " 

• Rule no.1 - If you want him to notice you, don't pay attention to him, no matter how crazy you are about him.

• Rule no.2 - Let him come after you!

• Rule no.3 - Always be a surprise, never let him realise that he has fully understood you.

• Rule no.4- Never let him realise that he has the ability to hurt you emotionally

• Rule no.5- Praise him for almost everything, so he is comfortable in saying 'I love you'                                           CHEERS!!